When parents identify likeness between themselves and the infant, what is an appropriate nurse response?

• A. Scold for overidentification.
• B. Encourage continued bonding.
• C. Immediately schedule genetic counseling.
• D. Document and ignore.

Answer: (B)

When parents connect with their infant by seeing themselves reflected in the baby, it signals healthy bonding and a developing parent–infant attachment. The nurse should acknowledge this connection and encourage it, reinforcing that such identification supports responsive caregiving. Validate what the parents notice, reflect their feelings, and invite them to share more, while guiding them in comforting and caring for the infant. Practical steps include holding and talking to the baby, responding to cues, and involving them in feeding and daily care, which builds confidence and cooperation with the care plan.

Scolding for overidentification would hinder bonding and create tension. Scheduling genetic counseling right away based on this perception isn’t the immediate goal; genetic counseling is considered when there are specific heredity concerns or risk factors, not simply from a sense of resemblance. Documenting and ignoring the observation would dismiss the family’s emotional needs and miss an opportunity to support attachment.